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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have no patience for women that have no sympathy for guys in the approach department.  Many women think it doesn't involve any great skill.  But their own conversational abilities suck.  They think to the contrary because guys act interested.  But that's largely because guys don't care what they say--especially at first-- they're just thinking if they want to have sex with them.  For most women I've encountered, their standard approach  (when they take the initiative) is "Hi" or "How's it going?"  And it works because a guy is happy the woman is taking the initiative and showing interest.  But if a guy did something that lame, it would be quick, easy, and decisive rejection.  Guys--especially introverted guys--look to books and other sources for help, because what women say will work, doesn't in fact work in the slightest.  [/quote]

Guy here, when I was single, "hi" and "how's it going" were my go-to opening lines and were often successful. But I was mostly approaching women who, seconds prior, had been making flirty eye contact. I think some guys are under the impression from movies that you're supposed to approach a woman who shows no interest in you and "woo" her. That's how it works some of the time but more commonly you are approaching a woman who has demonstrated some interest, either in previous conversations or eyes or body languge or you heard from a mutual friend etc. In those cases "hi" and a smile will usually result in a conversation and a future meet-up...[/quote]

"Hi" or "How's it going?"

Denzel Washington - it works.
Clarence Thomas    - doesn't work.[/quote]

See, there you go again. You clearly don't place much value on relationships with people, since it's all about strategy, winning losing, what works, what does not work. It's not a game.[/quote]

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