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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My friend married into a wealthy family. She was intimidated a bit at first but she is much as you describe your sister: beautiful, sociable, and a nice person. Men and women gravitate towards her.  When she was engaged, she was amazed that his family was so generous to her. She got all her china and silver at one shower. Her husband is handsome, successful and a super nice guy who has adored her since the first time he saw her.  Their two kids are also attractive, kind and smart. Her inlaws adore her because of all she has brought into the family, none of which is monetary since her family was middle class and she quit her career to accommodate his corporate moves and their children.  It's normal to feel envious, especially if it is your sibling. [/quote]

OP here. This is just like my sister. My mother is known for her exceptional grace and beauty. My sister luckily inherited her good looks and charisma. For as long as I remember she has always received positive attention from people. Men go crazy around her and women want to be her best friend. I do genuinely wish her well and love her. She's sweet and a kind person.

It's just super hard to not compare our situations because we grew up together in a tight knit family. We had the same group of friends, my mom dressed us in identical clothes and gave us the same haircuts. We even lived together as roommates until I got married. It just seems so odd that she got handpicked for a charmed life while I'll continue my financial struggle. Don't get my wrong, my dh is lovely and a sweetheart but we're just so average. Her dh is super smart and successful and comes from a rich but loving family. I just can't help but feel the difference in the quality of our dhs says a lot about who is a superior catch. And of course, she just wins. [/quote]

Your negativity is holding you back. Seriously. Be grateful and choose to be happy. Read "The Secret" and "The Power" by Rhonda Byrne not as gospel truth, but just to wake you up to the destructive power of negativity and the creative and healing power of gratitude.[/quote]

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