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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what helped me accept my marriage to my low libido DW whose attraction I questioned was seeing how often couples have sex.  Only about 25% of couples have sex more than once a week, and I am sure most of those are due to the wife placating the husband.  Point being its really rare for any woman in a LTR to want to have sex with her husband very often.  http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/FAQ.html#frequency

Point being, it's probably not you, your wife would be sick of fucking some jacked up alpha male too.

In fairness, how stoked are you to fuck your wife?  Does she get you as excited as the young secretary sitting across from your partner?  No, she doesn't.  The reason you are hot for your wife so badly is because you wake up with erections, think about sex all day, and your wife, whom you find attractive, is your only approved sexual outlet.

Not trying to minimize your pain.  Sex and Money are the two top reasons couples split.  In DCUM land, money is rarely an issue.

I make this sound easy, but it took years for me to come to terms with the fact that married sex is never going to be what I had hoped it would.  Not sure how old you are, but as I hit my mid-40s, my sex drive calmed down enough for our once a week sex to keep me sane.

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As a high libido female I find your explanation extremely depressing.[/quote]

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