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[quote=Anonymous]OP, does your wife sexually respond to you when you are on vacation?

Reason I ask, if your DW is responsive desire then the day to day grind overrides her ability to respond to you sexually (which is tough to begin with because you are familiar to her).  If she is on vacation in a new environment without distractions, she should be responding to the combo of you and the exotic newness of a hotel.  If she still has no interest in sex even on vacation, then yes, she probably isn't sexually attracted to you at all.  Even though she still loves you and finds you attractive in the generic sense.

Sorry to hear it my man.  If its consolation, your situation is common.  There is a disparity between male and female sex drive in general but it becomes a massive gulf in most long term marriages.  And now you see why there is such a high demand for prostitutes, Ashley Madison accounts, etc.  Read up on the rates gay men and lesbians have sex in long term relationships, you will realize its a gender thing, and hopefully you can stop seeing this as personal rejection.

Think of it as the price of admission for marriage.  You are trading sexual excitement for stability and (hopefully) a great life partner and mother of your children.   Sure, there are a lucky few who find a passionate marriage, but like shooting for the CEO corner suite, it is not a realistic goal.[/quote]

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