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[quote=Anonymous]Holy moly, is everyone here in 8th grade? I'm including the OP and her friend, because everyone seems to be very eager to avoid direct statements and general sucking it up. No one gets invited everywhere. OP should know that, and her friend should have given her credit for knowing that (although seeing how this has shaken out, she had reason to doubt). So the grownup thing to do when not inviting someone is not to lie about it. You don't invite someone, you don't mention it to her/him at all, and if the non-invitee hears about it, s/he says, "Oh, that sounds like fun" and moves along. At this point, the grownup thing for OP to do would be to say to her friend, "Look, I know you can't invite everyone to everything, but in the future, don't like about it. Just don't mention the things I'm not invited to, and I won't mention the things I don't invite you to, and we'll just stay calm and know we like each other, OK? And I hope your shindig goes well."[/quote]
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