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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Question: does the service vary based on the dues the family pays to the Synagogue ? Just curious because I have seen some Rabbis give A LOT of time and attention and I've seen others where the kids reading is just a blip or one of three kids in a row on same day. What determines this ? I've heard some Jewish friends complain too. What is this about ?[/quote] In my experience, it depends on two things. The size of the synagogue directly relates to how many kids have to share a bnai mitzvah weekend. Secondly, a kids aptitude and/or interest can influence how much of the service they lead. My synagogue is small, so everyone gets their own weekend. However, there is a mandatory meeting six months out to discuss what service and how much leading is appropriate.[/quote]
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