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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The thing that sticks out in your OP, to me, is
1. You feel like *you* would be denying him a child, when it's his infertility that would require you to undergo a series of serious medical interventions that you already agreed you wouldn't do

2. Your emphasis on that you REALLY don't want to do IVF

From the other side of this, he married a 38 year old woman with 3 kids. He realized going in that infertility was going to be a very likely issue, just not that it was going to be him. [b]Your kids are going to need a LOT of your time going into the middle and high school years.[/b] Fertility treatments take a lot of time and you may not be feeling well, limiting your options to help them. Lots of appts, follows ups, schedules to maintain, etc. Your kids have already been adjusting for just a few months to your new husband, it seems like a lot to ask of all of you at this point.
Which is probably why you agreed to "no IVF" in the first place [/quote]

This is actually the very first thing I thought about too.  Your about to enter a phase where your kids need you more than ever.  I thought the baby toddler years were tough but they are so simple to compared to whats about to come. [/quote]

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