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[quote=Anonymous]This is so hard, OP. I may have missed it - does he want to have a biological child, or would adoption be a possibility? I don't know much about the risks of hormones, but if it were me, I think I would probably agree to try IVF 1-2 times (or whatever we could comfortably afford). Or adopt. I completely understand his wanting to have and raise a child of his own, and not being able to do that is a huge loss. If he sees you as the reason why he couldn't have a child (because you didn't want to pursue the options available, regardless of your original agreement) he could be resentful and that could hurt your marriage. I'm not trying to make you feel like you would be wrong to make that decision, but I'm trying to think realistically about possibilities. He might also be able to get over it. We can't know that - the two of you would best be able to judge that. Would you consider going to counseling to talk about it? [/quote]
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