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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You really need to talk to your husband about this, perhaps with the help of a couples counselor. Whatever agreement you had before, it sounds like your husband may have changed his mind, which is his prerogative. It is also your prerogative to stick with the initial agreement,[b] no one is right or wrong here.[/b] You two need to get to a really clear understanding of each other's feelings, and how strongly you feel about them. It's possible that now that he's had this time parenting your children (even in an "uncle" way), he's feeling the pull for his own child that much more. If you say no to IVF, is there a chance he'll leave to find someone else who does want kids? If so, do you feel strongly enough about not doing IVF to give up your marriage? These are things that you need to talk about.

You really need to talk about it soon, though. There's no reason to go through fertility testing if you're not planning to go through fertility treatments, and so by going along with this testing, you've already signaled to him that you're open to fertility treatments. If there answer there is a hard no for you, you need to make that very clear to him. [/quote]

I think this makes sense OP.  You need to have a talk.  It will be difficult but be honest.

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