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[quote=Anonymous]My ex had a short affair while on a business trip about 3 months ago. I wanted to forgive him and work on things, but he came back and starting lying, sneaking around, etc. As much as I wanted it to work, the lack of respect and remorse gave me no choice but to end it. He was sneaking around talking with other girls, then coming back to me at the end of the night. My therapist said the "hysterical bonding" phase is perfectly normal - so do what feels right to you. I hope your spouse is showing true remorse. I do think it is possible to work past infidelity, but it is important that both people want to work on things, and you need to make sure you don't let yourself get walked all over like I did. I tried for almost 3 months, but I finally accepted the fact that I was the only one fighting for the relationship.

It is crazy how an incident like this could change someone so drastically pretty much over night. Hopefully, it changes your spouse for the good and you guys can work past it, if that is what both of you want. [/quote]

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