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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you so much for the support and advice. 
I have to say that I find my husband so unattractive because of this. I am not asking him questions. He is just saying things in conversation. It is bizarre. Whenever we have a conversation, I cringe.

Here is how the coffee incident went down:
me: Babe, do you want me to get you different coffee pods? (pods have been untouched for weeks)I can get you the Starbucks Dark Roast?
DH: The ones we have are fine. I make it before I leave for work.
Both of us awkwardly stare at the full pod holder.
me: I thought you were picking up Starbucks.
DH: Yeah, well, that's when I get off the train.

I don't have the energy to argue about this nonsense,
so it becomes fact. 
s
there are so many lies, I could go on all day.

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I just read this 3x and I don't understand why you would think he is lying. You asked him if you should buy different coffee pods and he said the current pods are fine.

I have had my own coffee frustrations with my husband but I won't get upset that he is lying to me. Yes, I often do think he is an idiot and we have a lot of miscommunication. I get mad at DH when he doesn't answer the question I am asking. DH is not defensive because he has nothing to hide and he says it is my wording that is almost trapping him into giving the wrong answer so that I get upset.

Just recently, I have exploded at him for being cheap with gifted coffee. We got these pods you can fill with grounded coffee. Another vendor gave us grounded coffee and he was using it in our Keurig. The coffee grinds somehow were getting into my coffee and I asked him to stop. After being together for over 10 yrs, DH still can't order my drink properly. He says I am too picky.

This guy is your husband. Why don't you point blank ask him what's up and why he is lying? [/quote]

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