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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The fun part of your life is over. You are going to have a few years of hassle now. suck it up.[/quote]

OP, you're still living like you're single, whether you think you are or not. You haven't cut the cord yet to all of those ridiculous friend/ family social commitments that you think are so important, as well as your "demanding" job.

You are married now and have a child. It's not about you living your life the way you always did. If you try to continue, this -- or worse -- will be the end result.[/quote]

Lol.  None of these commitments are for my family/friends.  They are all on my husband's side.  No one on my side sees me any more.  I think people are getting the wrong impression though.  These social commitments (really in law commitments) come up only once a month and often less frequently than that.  It is not any one thing that makes life so hard; it is everything taken together.  I cannot refuse to attend SIL's wedding because a work function ate up the one night I was going to have to myself.  [b]I can't not give DS a bath because I pulled an all nighter and am exhausted. [/b] I can't refuse to deal with DS when he is sick, so I get sick too in time for a major assignment to be due.  It is everything.  I am pulled in a million directions.[/quote]

You have a nanny.  Review childcare tasks and see what can be done during the time she is there.  There's no reason your DS must have a bath in the evening when you are exhausted.  Make it an a.m. thing that the nanny handles.[/quote]

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