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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]this is why mandatory paternity tests should be the law of the land. the moment a kid is popped out, there needs to be a paternity test administered before the father is put down on the birth certificate[/quote] Will never happen, would interrupt the female gravy train.[/quote] It'll never happen because who's going to pay for it? I'm certainly not paying for paternity tests on my child when I know for certain they're my husband's. And I don't think taxpayers want to pay those bills out of their pockets.[/quote] It already costs, what, $10k out of pocket for births? I'm sure you can find an extra $100 for a mandatory paternity test. Face facts: The paternity test isn't mandatory because it's in the government's interest to allow women to pin paternity on paying chumps.[/quote] Or because it's insulting, degrading and unnecessary. I know with 100% certainty that my children are DHs. He knows this too. I would find it incredibly insulting that I should have to prove this. Stay out of our bedroom, our marriage and our decisions as parents. Nothing prevents a man who suspects he is not the father of a child from getting a kit, shelling out $100 and having the test performed. But under no circumstances would I agree to one. And honestly, if my DH asked, I would seriously make me question our relationship. If he thinks I could ever cheat on him, then he does not know me at all. -- signed brown haired mom with brown haired DH but red headed DD. [/quote]
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