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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have no idea why people are criticizing OP. I assume it's because they don't have any male friends. But I do and I don't want to sleep with them.

The wife is abusive and crazy. "Trying to hold her family together"??? What on earth does that mean? If someone is going to cheat, you cannot stop them by micromanagement.

I would back off OP....for your own safety and sanity. Just let your friend know you will always be there for him and fade out for now.[/quote] +1 if the sexes were reversed, people would be going bat shit over how abusive the friend's spouse is. None of this is op's fault. She needs to step back as requested by her friend, but she is not responsible for his messed up marriage or crazy, controlling wife.[/quote]

I don't know about your planet, but men on this planet abuse, rape, and kill women far more than women do men, so yeah, we look at controlling, isolating behavior from men toward women a bit differently. More often, women trying to control men are dealing with dog-men who won't really commit or act trustworthy. This guy is not going to admit to you that he's cheated or tried to cheat, and that's why his wife checks up on him. He's going to paint her as controlling and himself as innocent victim. Obviously his wife doesn't have much self-esteem, but maybe she's desperate and figures the kids will be better off if he's around to help support them etc.

But in any case, whether we think the wife is crazy and controlling or we think the husband is sketchy, everyone agrees OP should back away. [/quote]

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