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[quote=Anonymous]God, reading some of these DV stories is horrifying. OP - what kind of self-esteem issues do you have to even make it a remote possibility to find yourself in one of these situations - midnight calls to the cops, county jail, having to look up arrest records (!!!). Why in God's name are you even waffling on this? OP is the reason I say that in many situations women set themselves up for misery. The signs are here. But women convince themselves that they are the unicorn that will change the guy. I always told myself when young and dating - you are not the exception. You are the rule. Meaning, if he was mean in the past, he will be mean to me. If he hit in the past, he will hit me. Helped me find a wonderful DH. Good luck, OP. I seriously hope you don't end up with this guy and it sounds like you need a new therapist. [/quote]
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