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[quote=Anonymous]Here's one way to look at this. You are the kid's Godparents. If something tragic happens to your sister, the kids will live with BIL full-time. As their Godparents, you will want to stay in their lives; therefore, a decent relationship with BIL is necessary and desirable. Let your sister know that you have her back. You can let her know that you realize that BIL was not a great husband to her. But that you want to maintain a relationship. You can also let her know that your DH and the BIL are close friends and you feel it is important for him to be there to support him in this tough time (just as you are there to support your sister). That being said, I would distance yourselves a bit for now. It's all so raw. Your sister sounds a bit selfish (affair, etc), but she needs your love right now.[/quote]
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