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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old are you?  Men don't stay perpetually horny forever. [/quote]

I'm a DH in the 2nd half of my 40s.  We have a 3 month old and went through this kind of thing just about a year ago. DW is a decade younger, but I still had the higher drive when we first got together and for the first part of our marriage.  At this point in life, my drive is not what it was up until I hit the big 40: always ready, any time.  Now I might actually require some coaxing.  When we got into "conception sex" it felt a lot like duty/on-demand-performance, and that pressure to perform made the whole arousal process more difficult.  I have talked to buddies who had their kids a decade (or more) earlier, and reported the same feelings about conception sex.  It can be unsexy in execution and business-like, and while men are supposed to be the 'ready to go at any time' horndogs of relationships, this isn't universally true, particularly after middle age.  The pregnancy was difficult so we made only two attempts at sex (failed!) during the pregnancy, but we have bounced back nicely (2x/week) since she got her IUD 6 weeks post partum, so there is hope.  [/quote]

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