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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Well only I know my MIL and if I asked her directly she would just say that she comes her to see her son and grandchildren that she loves so much, be offended that I asked such a question and complain to my husband that I was rude and made her feel unwelcome. Anyways, you are right that I have found the explanation that suits my situation best and now I am just asking advice how to tactfully lessen the frequency of the visits besides saying 'Oh we're busy this weekend! You can't come over.'[/quote] Sorry, I don't see a way to tactfully do it, especially as you are already on their shit list, so nothing you suggest will go over well. At any rate, your husband should be the one standing up for you and negotiating this on your behalf. And if you don't see eye to eye on this - well, it's a bigger issue in your family.[/quote]
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