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[quote=Anonymous]I agree they're keeping an eye on you, since you're not Indian. Also, since he's the oldest son, this may be a bit of a test to see how you will treat them when they come live with you, as they probably assume they will. They may feel it's expected of them to come live with their eldest son, whether they prefer to or not. And they're looking at how you do things, how far you are willing to go to oblige them and do for them, and how you take care of the household. If I were you, I'd stop going out of my way to do extra cooking or cleaning when they visit. Just follow your normal routine and be your usual self. Treat them as you would if they lived with you. They won't like it, but maybe they'll get the message. Don't be surprised if there's negative fallout, but you don't want them there all the time or LIVING with you anyway. Hopefully your husband is happy with you as you are. [/quote]
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