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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have read that female infidelity is much more likely to result in divorce than male infidelity. I am sure there are a number of reasons for this, some economic. But I also suspect this is something men can't get over. Will be interested to see the replies,to your question OP.[/quote]

It is pretty interesting. If I had to offer a theory, it's that most women make a very, very big deal about how sex is sacred, how it's so intimate, and how they could never imagine having sex with someone who they aren't absolutely in love with (and yes, I know this is largely horseshit).

Meanwhile, guys pretty much admit they'd fuck a pie if it was warm.

So when women cheat, men usually figure it's about more than just sex. [/quote]

OP here - As I wrote in my previous post, simplistic of views of men and women like these are how you get screwed over in real life. You should be paying attention to the real attitudes that the flesh and blood woman you are with holds about sex, not projecting some nonsense you learned in grade school.

I come off as sweet, prim, and proper.  Skirts, dresses, and used to go to Sunday School.  But I also happen to not ascribe any real importance to sex beyond scratching an itch.  I am about as emotionally attached to any given conquest as I was to the burger I ate last night.  Men go selectively deaf when I am frank about my beliefs or think that it is cute I am trying to shock them.  In reality, I am being frank about what I really think. When I act on my beliefs, they then want to cry foul.

I suspect that women like me are more common than people realize.  There is this ridiculous social pressure on women to express puritanical views of sex that we may not hold.[/quote]

OP, I so agree with you.

I actually think many women are like this.  I think that's why many men are so horrified about the prospect of Tinder and "women becoming sluts"- because they realize that women are not naturally super romantic or attached to the people we sleep with.

Apparently that's why the male sexual organ has evolved to look like it does.  I wont get graphic cause this is not the explicit section, but women used to have sex with many different men between a short span of time.  And the shape of the male sexual organ was influenced by this fact.  Those who are interested can google that and see what I am dancing around...

Not to mention, studies have shown that women get bored with sexual monogamy faster than men.  Which can explain why so many men are still excited and interested in sleeping with their wives after 20 years and a women often start getting bored after 2.  Women prefer sexual variety more than men.

I am in my mid 20s and most of my friends dont get emotional about sex.  I think many men thinks thats posturing, or trying to "fit in with the guys", but that's really the case.

You are seeing that fact of female sexuality show up more in popular culture, like in Amy Schumer's comedy.  But we have a long way to go to accepting that female sexuality can be just as, and actually recent evidence suggests that it's MORE, voracious for novelty than male sexuality. [/quote]

I am a DH. I agree with most of this. Men are more romantic and thus more idealistic and less practical than women than women. [/quote]

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