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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I grew up in an environment like this.  Here's the thing.  It sneaks up on you.  You make excuses.  You think it's weird that other kids' parents don't fight or you assume it gets really bad when guests aren't there because that's how it is in your family.  You look forward to houseguests because it's calm.

You spend a lot of time walking on eggshells and if you're lucky you have functional relationships as an adult.  But probably not immediately.  More likely, your first few relationships will mimic the behavior of your same sex parent.

Ask yourself what you can endure but also the following two questions:

1. what do you want for your child -- this isn't just about childhood.

2.  what do you want for your own future -- this will escalate even further.

I have been in the car in these situations.  I have blocked out major incidents like this because they are too frightening to process.  Please think long and hard about the effect this is having on you and your child.

You both deserve so much better than this, no matter what your husband ([b]there is nothing dear about him[/b]) is leading you to believe.[/quote]

:roll: [/quote]

You do know what the D in DH stands for, right?[/quote]

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