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[quote=Anonymous]Are you Asian, by chance? I am Asian. Asians have different expectations. However inappropriate it may be, you need to do what you need to do. If your MIL comes Thanksgiving to Christmas, you will lose it and probably alienate your MIL for life. Best case scenario, piss her off a little bit but not so much to cut off for life. Skipping this season is fine. Just ignore your husband. He will not stick up for you, although he really should. Just handle it yourself. Just propose what you think you can handle-- 1 week or whatever. If she gets so mad she won't come. Be it. You can be super nice later and extend olive branch. You will have gotten what you needed by that point-- for her to not come. [/quote]
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