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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You people are messed up. Truly messed up. How can you live with yourself?

If you are that miserable with your spouse but unequipped to end it, then you have two options that would allow you to salvage your dignity:

(1) work on your marriage; or

(2) be honest with your spouse and ask for an open marriage until you two can officially separate.

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In a perfect world, simply "working on your marriage" would resurrect your sex life"  In a perfect world, a low sex or asexual spouse would be empathetic to not meeting reasonable sexual needs and agree on a compromise outside of the marriage.

In the real world, the choice is between divorce and losing access to kids part time, messing up finances, putting kids through trauma of divorce, or discretely getting reasonable sexual needs met outside the home.[/quote]

My vows included this whole thing about "for better for worse" and "forsaking all others." Because I am a person of integrity, who believes being true to my character is essential, the fact that my DH has a lower sex drive than I do is entirely irrelevant. Marriage isn't just about sex, you know. You need to take the good with the bad, or else divorce.[/quote]

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