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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm with OP.  My DH doesn't have any female friends he grew up, but I have a lot of boy friends I grew up with.  I would NEVER hang out with them now, and they would not hang out with me either.  We are all married with kids.  It's just a different phase of life.  I do the occasional email and am friends on facebook, but I would never be invited to their house, nor would I invite them to mine.  Seriously.  I think you all are the same person responding because I can't be one of only a few who feel this way, and I know of no one's husband who has old female friends they hang out with.  [/quote]

OP here. I honestly dont mind him having female friends. All of them are beyond nice to the point that we all hang out together and i dont care if he goes out solo with them. However, we were just down there so i dont get why he has to go back to visit her. He could have then, which i totally supported and actually pushed for him to do. So that pisses me off. She is a bitch but husband sticks up for her no matter what and it sucks that its as though he chooses her over me. Yes there is more to this story but its difficult for me to be specific on this board. Husband and i had a rocky relationship while i was pregnant to the point of us not being together anymore. He didnt care about the pregnancy or myself yet would talk to her on the phone asking how her pregnancy was going (we were both pregnant at the same time). Once off the phone, he would tell me all about her pregnancy but not once ask how i felt or excited about our pregnancy. Deep down inside i dont like her for more than her being cold to me. She comes before me and i hate that. This person is not an ex of my husband and i suspect zero cheating or wanting to be with her. [/quote]

OP, I agree with you but wonder if there is more to this, like they were an item or he liked her and was rejected by her.  There has to be more to this story. (that you do not know)[/quote]

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