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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for the positive stories, I really need them right now.  He told me he wanted to leave months ago and he still feels the same way so I am just waiting for the night he comes home and packs his things.  As I mentioned, I have tried everything and he just isn't receptive and just doesn't want to try.  The thought of not being with my kids is devastating too - my youngest is only a year old and I just can't imagine losing half her time.  She's my baby.  How can I lose that time with her - it is so precious with all of the firsts and learning.  She is like a sparkling light.  And the older one will be so, so upset and that is just heartbreaking too and I want to be around every day to hear her creative stories and infectious laugh.  Everything makes me cry and I just want to know there is some hope and I can pick up the million tiny pieces.  I am able to keep it together in front of the kids, but as soon as they go to sleep I am a mess, and I am finding it hard to concentrate at work.  And I know he doesn't care.  Sorry for the rant - obviously I am not in a good place right now.

I guess one upside to this is I have dropped a ton of weight because I have no appetite and I was only around 10 pounds over my ideal weight anyway.  My stomach, on the other hand, is not that great because I have not focused on exercise since I had the second baby.  Maybe I can start working on that as a distraction.

Thanks again and keep the positive stories coming!  They really, really help.[/quote]

Yeah Divorce!!! Life is going to be so much better after you divorce! No bad husband. Plenty of "me" time. Lots of dating and multiple sex partners (but only casually). The children will be better off. Life will be... just... THE BEST!!! Go for it girl!! YOU ROCK!![/quote]

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