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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not a woman here would have a problem with a woman fending off an unwanted sexual advance forcefully if necessary. He did not do that. He has understandable feelings of violation of trust and his person. That is not homophobia.

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This.

Also have a bit of compassion and empathy. This just happened, he feels violated and he is venting. If this were a female, the responses would be very different.[/quote]

The issue I have with OP is that he's treating it like some special level of violation, that it's somehow worse than any other time someone lies to another person to get them in bed, and that there should be some heightened level of consequence for this person as compared to people who lie about other things. It's just not, no matter how upset OP may be.[/quote]

It is elevated to me.

The one thing I agree with is that his revelation did not cause me any physical harm or life threatening conditions (eg aids). In that respect, I understand (but still hate) the "it's just a lie" argument. It still feels grossly wrong though. I would have never thought to ask if she was born a man.[/quote]

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