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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. He is 37 and 24 years younger than my dad. I've had sex with him twice before during drunk hookups. I tend it like older men ( 30-40) so the age difference is no issue. [/quote]

This changed my answer. If you have already had sex with him, this essentially becomes a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. It doesn't say much for his character that he'd rather offer you money than a relationship, but okay. It's a pretty good deal to pass on. Tuition and free room and board. And it's only for 1-2 years?

Just make sure this is something you can live with. Something you can explain to your husband later without shame. If you can do this and hold your head up high, then it's no one's business.

Before you agree though, make sure everything is absolutely spelled out. Tuition and books, all food and utilities, plus some monthly spending money. Skip the gifts...that's too undefined. He could mean chocolates and flowers, not jewelry you could pawn. Also determine what happens if you meet someone. Does he want exclusivity? What if he meets someone? Under what circumstances could he ask you to leave the house? If he terminates early, does he still pay tuition? [/quote]

This is a lot of great questions. To be fair he did offer to help pay for things without sex. I always declined as it felt awkward just taking money. Then he decided to propose this, I'm assuming. He's really a nice guy. He had a rough upbringing and struggled before his wealth, and I think he seems a little of himself in me ( no pun intended).

I'm not exactly what you mean by full room and board. I will still be paying my own rent, utilities, and daily expenses. He will be covering tuition ( first year upfront), dinners, and gifts.

We have not discussed exclusivity but he did say I can end it whenever w.o him taking back tuition payments. I trust him and his word. I feel it's kind of no different than my real relationships. For the most part I've dated men who paid for almost every outing and offered to help pay tuition, etc.  [/quote]

NP. With all this context I'd say go for it. And don't think about your future husband, whatever, I think people who want to rehash all their old relationships are just asking for problems. You had a boyfriend that helped you with tuition once upon a time, done. [/quote]

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