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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. He is 37 and 24 years younger than my dad. I've had sex with him twice before during drunk hookups. I tend it like older men ( 30-40) so the age difference is no issue. [/quote]

This changed my answer. If you have already had sex with him, this essentially becomes a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. It doesn't say much for his character that he'd rather offer you money than a relationship, but okay. It's a pretty good deal to pass on. Tuition and free room and board. And it's only for 1-2 years?

Just make sure this is something you can live with. Something you can explain to your husband later without shame. If you can do this and hold your head up high, then it's no one's business.

Before you agree though, make sure everything is absolutely spelled out. Tuition and books, all food and utilities, plus some monthly spending money. Skip the gifts...that's too undefined. He could mean chocolates and flowers, not jewelry you could pawn. Also determine what happens if you meet someone. Does he want exclusivity? What if he meets someone? Under what circumstances could he ask you to leave the house? If he terminates early, does he still pay tuition? [/quote]

Why would she need to explain this arrangment to her future husband? He's likely running around sowing his wild oats and banging random girls on the weekend while he's single as well.  [/quote]

Sowing wild oats and selling sex for cash are two different things.

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Women have been selling sex for money forever.  And I'm not just talking about the official  prostitutes, I'm also talking about married women.  It's ingrained in our evolution.

Men bring money into a relationship.

Women bring money and youth. Most women won't even date a man seriously unless he earned a certain amount of money or some sort of professional achievement.  How is that any different?  [/quote]

I mean... look at yourself and your friends.  Most women who date men for their looks are young and just having fun.  When it's time to settle down, it's all about money and stability.[/quote]

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