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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, guy here. If you see a guy you like talk to him, but make sure you tell him your age quick. Just work it into the conversation. Many normal guys will not want to date someone who they think is a lot younger. I don't think you can just sit back and wait for a guy. You are just attracting the creeps. 
Invest in a personal shopper(say you want to look old- more  confident) and get you hairstyle changed(again go to a professional and let them give you a few choices- more professional, old, etc look). This will help keep the creeps away...they don't like the look of a confident women(not saying you are not confident, but there might be something in your look that is attracting these type of guys). Invest the money and have fun. Good luck.[/quote]

This is really great advice.

I am a different PP who has the same problem and I am slowly realizing I will have to start approaching men, which is daunting when you've never done it before.  But, as you said, quality guys don't want to date a girl who is super younger than them.

It's funny, because when I was a freshman in college I looked young but not ten years younger.  Seemed I was approached by way more guys my own age, guys who were quality.  Now I feel like I just get approached by a parade of dudes with "teen girl" fantasies.  Yuck.[/quote]

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