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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wishing that this particular woman in your story behaved differently is one thing, since you know she isn't getting what she wants, but why in the world do you wish people were less promiscuous overall? That is what sounds offensive.[/quote]

What's offensive is that she isn't asking that people were less promiscuous overall, it's that she's wishing women were less promiscuous overall, without holding men to any kind of similar standard. A woman could be a virgin until the day she got married but if the man she marries had 15 partners before, he could just as easily bring those STDs into the marriage and she's in the same position anyway from a health standpoint. And given how many men here say they won't move forward in a relationship with a woman who won't have sex, her pickings would be pretty slim when it came to marriage anyway. So basically women need to thread that fine line between being easy for the right guy, but not making too many mistakes in identifying the right guy to have her number be too high, and if any of those guys, even the first, gives her an STD, she's branded as a slut.

Charming.[/quote]

You are confusing slut-shaming with stupid-shaming.  If you want to have sex with a bunch of guys really quickly, great, good for you.  If you want to have sex with a bunch of guys and expect a committed relationship to magically happen, or that you won't get a bunch of nasty diseases, that's stupid.  And if a man doesn't want to wait to have sex, he's not worth your time.  I wouldn't consider the men "here" the cream of the crop.

And personally, I think men who sleep around are stupid, too.  No double-standard here![/quote]

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