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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- I love the way everyone has just run with this. At the risk of being judged even more... actually, who am I kidding- Given the CERTAINTY of being judge even  more, I'll correct a few things and add a few details:

I have also been married and have 3 children that I am now raising on my own, so I too have "brought life into this world" and "focussed on my marriage"

I have a PhD in economics.

It's the way he describes his life- rather than the way I perceive it- as having been very limited by his marriage.

He has lived his whole life in one small city and I have lived in many places. He was afraid to drive in DC when he came to visit recently.

I don't think I'm better than he is. He's smart, funny, cool, competent. We are compatable on many levels. Totally on the same level mentally.

[b]I'm just worried that I will always "have done" stuff that is new to him.[/b]

And finally, I was looking for been there, done that advice rather than judgement (wrong venue, I know!)[/quote]

The alternative is to find someone who has done exactly everything that you have? No diversity, no unique differences between you? I love that my husband and I are different people with many things in common, but with different interests as well. Who wants to marry themselves, except a narcissist? [/quote]

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