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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- I love the way everyone has just run with this. At the risk of being judged even more... actually, who am I kidding- Given the CERTAINTY of being judge even  more, I'll correct a few things and add a few details:

I have also been married and have 3 children that I am now raising on my own, so I too have "brought life into this world" and "focussed on my marriage"

I have a PhD in economics.

It's the way he describes his life- rather than the way I perceive it- as having been very limited by his marriage.

He has lived his whole life in one small city and I have lived in many places. He was afraid to drive in DC when he came to visit recently.

I don't think I'm better than he is. He's smart, funny, cool, competent. We are compatable on many levels. Totally on the same level mentally.

I'm just worried that I will always "have done" stuff that is new to him.

And finally, I was looking for been there, done that advice rather than judgement (wrong venue, I know!)[/quote]

Sorry OP. You're still coming across as if your see yourself as superior to him. Not sure what you're looking for from this forum. If he's not accomplished enough for you in these areas just leave him be. Not sure I see your conundrum. [/quote]

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