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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Smoking
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Why are you picky about divorcees?[/quote]

Too much baggage/drama. i'm married but these were my deal breakers when single. Plus, I wanted a church wedding, a sacrament to me. Harder to do with a divorcee.

Hey, you got your list and I have mine. [/quote]

That is a MAJOR assumption.  Not every single divorcee has a child.  
One of my childhood friends had a church wedding, ended up divorced, got re-married in a church.  [/quote]

I think it depends on one's age. At age 25 I would not have dated a divorcee. At that age I wouldn't want to have to take on someone else's baggage, and why would I need to? And no, there's no such thing as a baggage-less divorce.

At age 35 I'd not dismiss divorcees at all. By then everyone has baggage, previous marriage or not.

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That is a valid point about age, but in my opinion, it depends on the circumstances and no one will give the full story right off the bat because of trust issues.  One should be able to give enough information and balance out both sides of the story though so the other person has something to go on. [/quote]

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