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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would love to know the age of most of the people posting here! Some of these lists indicate to me that you are very young and really have not lived! I just can't imagine closing myself off from huge chunks of the population, for instances you wont date someone that has a tattoo that they probably got when they were 18? I do agree w/ a PP that said a lot of you will probably remain single, but that is your choice. [/quote]

Typical DCUM.  If we were all saying, oh I don't have any dealbreakers, I'll give all the druggie, felon, failed anger management, 3x divorced, chain smoking ladies and gents a try-you would say that we are pathetic losers with no standards.  I'm recently divorced, I've learned some valuable lessons about the type of person I want to be with, and I'm happy to be single until I meet someone compatible who I really like.[/quote]

I did not say, "don't have any standards or preferences" I just believe in getting to know a person, and I am a believer in humans make "mistakes" and from those mistakes people can grow. I feel it is closed minded to say you would never date/get to know a person because they may have a tattoo or maybe had poor judgment at age 18 that lead to some type of criminal charge. I think there are exceptions and each situation can be different. I don't believe in a deal breaker list, I believe in giving a person a fair chance and deciding based on that person's particular situation if I can live with it or not. I know that I did not always make the best decisions when I was younger and I am glad that I grew as a person from those experiences and have turned into a successful and well rounded adult. This why I brought the age of these posters into question. The older I have gotten, the more I have realized this. I maybe really open minded, I like to think of it as life experience and growth. The people I have dated in my older years have never used my past against me or written me off, including my DH.   [/quote]

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