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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do not let husband talk you into a second kid. Maybe you are meant to be an amazing mom on ONE. I know I am. Two would hAve destroyed our marriage. Mine is now two and I do have more time for my personal interests. I run/yoga multiple times a week,Joined a book group and go out with friends once a week too. DH and I are able to travel a lot with one kid only including internationally and that is truly the one passion we share so it's important. Keep looking a job and focus on the positives of your family of three. [/quote] +100, This is exactly me! OP, I felt very much like you did the first year w/ my DS. After the first year things started to improve and I am in a much better place. I am however well aware that my husband and I should only have one child, if we were to have more than that, I would be asking for a divorce. I don't think he or I could make it through another pregnancy and child. I am content being the mother of an only child. He is now almost 3. I also grew up an only child and certainly do not feel "lonely" or that I missed out on anything. Your child will be fine if they are an only. GL to you and I hope you land in a better spot soon! [/quote]
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