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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Gosh, I don't know.  Do you want to have a relationship with these people?  They've shown their true colors and they are difficult people who view things through a narrow lens.  You are going to always be bending over to meet their needs and placate them.

Their attack of you was unprovoked and undeserved.  Personally I'm with your husband on blocking them and keeping them separate.  He grew up with them and he understands the family dynamics much more than you or an anonymous forum.[/quote]

OP here- Do I want a relationship with them? Yes, because it's important to my husband and I think it's wrong to deny my daughter access to half of her family. They have caused a lot of stress to us over the years (for example, SIL complained 3-4 times in January to DH that I never call her, and so I picked up the phone and called her. Left a voice message of "hey, would love to catch up! etc". She never called me back), which is why I'm very frustrated with this latest episode. I just want to live my life and have a friendly relationship with family. My family sure isn't perfect, but they're not difficult to get along with, but the in-laws are just drama drama drama all the time and it is exhausting.

I certainly appreciate all the kind words from everyone on here, and to the PP who asked, yes, I've thanked DH for being so awesome to me about this. He managed to break out of all this crap through years and years of therapy, but the rest of the family don't seem to understand how they're impacting others. They think they're normal and I'm cold and arrogant, and I just need to beef up my coping skills and not take this personally.[/quote]

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