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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would back the heck off after this. Take a break. Let DH give his family members a "What the heck? My wife does the best she can, she sends you photos, talks with you on the phone, now this? Are you crazy? She talks with you more than she talks to some of her closest friends for crying out loud. You are out of line, and you owe my wife an apology." See what they say to DH when he puts them on the spot for their behavior. If the apologize, great.

If not, just stop contact for awhile--not DH, but you. Continuing their normal level of contact isn't how you would respond to anyone else treating you this way, right? Don't get on the phone when DH calls, let DH be the one to send baby photos, don't arrange the beach house visit if that couple is the one who acted like this, possibly block them on Facebook for now.

Back off and let them realize how good they had it. Think about what you actually want based on this new information after several weeks and go from there.[/quote]

This gets my vote. You need to stay in the realm of the sane.[/quote]

I agree with this, except I'd take out the 'crazy' part and add something like "and why would you ask her to keep something from me?" and maybe something about the fact that it was done through Facebook. Ithink some of the other responses are too long and drag out the drama. [/quote]

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