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[quote=Anonymous]As I said, I was the validation PP--not the BPD PP. I explicitly said OP's DD could not have BPD because for one thing by definition you have to be over 18. I wrote because I researched this when things were not going well with my DD--lots of lies in addition to much else--and found that validation, which was developed for dealing with those with BPD, was incredibly helpful. My DD does NOT have BPD but I credit my learning and practicing validation with her to a great turn around in her behavior. It would have been a great loss for me and her had I refused to investigate it as a tool simply because it was developed for those with BPD. BTW if you are practicing validation you do not punish the person for lying--that would be pretty much the opposite of how you'd handle it.[/quote]
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