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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think a 20 year age difference is less of a red flag than her wanting to get married at 20. You have had a whole adult life, she has never lived alone, never had to support herself or handle any sort of adult issues. I cannot imagine going from sharing the dorm showers to being someone's wife. Wait until she's a few years out of school and if you both feel the same way, awesome! One benefit of her being young is that she will still presumedly be fertile for another 15-20 years so no need to rush to have kids. Honestly at this point you'll be an older dad either way, better to wait for her sake than rush into it.
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This. To me the concerns are more about her wanting you to create a role for her (wife/mother) rather than her being focused on life after college and what she wants to do.

Wait until she graduates. I have a feeling the pressure she puts on you will increase as her own life decisions need to be made post-graduation and you'll see the writing on the wall for yourself.[/quote]

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