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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wonder how white women feel about white men going for nonwhite women. I have definitely been hurt by losing a few white female friends who just couldn't believe that white men they found attractive wanted and preferred dark "exotic" me.  No one told them that Disney movies aren't real, lol.[/quote]

The dagger stares I received from some white women who saw me out with my various nonwhite girlfriends (African American and Asian) over the years still haunt me.[/quote]

White women definitely care.  They react very poorly to any indication that they are not the gold standard.  I have had white waitresses "accidentally" spill water on me or refuse to look at me when taking my order.  I have had white female coworkers ask very rude questions like "do you think he has a fetish?"  To these women, a man of color dating a white woman is normal, but a white man dating a woman of color must have an unhealthy fetish.  Okay then.[/quote]

White woman here.  Honestly would never occur to me to care at all.  Makes no sense.  I suspect most white women are like me.  Is it possible there's another reason people are rude to you?  I mean, you do seem pretty obnoxious. [/quote]

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