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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it is about race.  Black American males have a disproportionately dysfunctional upbringing and that manifests itself in various ways.  Attributing the bad behavior to racism doesn't erase the bad behavior.  [b]A thug is a thug even if the reason they became a thug was a poor uobringing due to the history of racism.[/b]  At some point black men will have to take responsibility for own behavior despite the history of racism.  Pretending black male behavior is fine and calling OP a racist for pointing out her personal experiences with black men won't change the bad behavior which they need to do if they are sincere about actually wanting women like OP to date black men ratber than.just insukt her.[/quote]

I agree 110%!  Your post really captures what has been bothering me about the constant denial of black men's antisocial behavior:  Even if it is due to the legacy of slavery or segregation or daddy never loving them, what does that have to do with the women who have to deal with black men?  Should we sacrifice ourselves on the altar of PC by choosing men who will never make good husbands and fathers?  That is what a lot of black women do, with disastrous consequences for them and their children.  There is a real misogyny in thinking that is okay.[/quote]

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