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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As your FIL gets older, his behavior will possibly worsen. And he will know there is nothing you can do about it once they are entrenched. How do you and your DH will feel about your children witnessing FIL's treatment of family members? What if he starts being abusive and manipulative towards them?[/quote] This is so true!! In my family, no one can control (I mean reason with) grandpa. My grandpa (so FIL to my mom) is not emotionally abusive or physically abusive, but has a mouth that wonders quite often crushing mom's heart. As he ages (he is 96 by the way), oh boy, he just does not listen to anyone but trying to make others to listen to him. And, this is from a loving grandpa to his grandchildren/children. Since your FIL from the start is the abusive one, I say back out with any excuses possible (like pp said, county code doesn't allow in-law suit, etc.) [/quote]
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