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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have to take a two week international business trip next month. DS is 6 and I am sad thinking about it. He and I have been a part a week at a time before. Never 2 but we'll be ok. Do what you need to do OP. Lots of skype and lots of extra hugs be fore and after. [/quote] Op here. DH has a two week business trip. I was going to go with him. The two weeks will be pretty intense, with events til 9 or 10 pm and so forth. We were going to go for some solo time after. It's been 7 yrs since we have taken a trip internationally, although we did take 4 days to a resort a few years ago. [b]Our marriage is on the rocks and we thought this would help[/b]. But I can't stomach being apart from the kids this long. Its far enough away that it's not really worth going for just the week together. You'd barely get over the jet lag before it would be time to go home. Glad to have the responses here. As outlandish as some of them were, I totally feel the same way. We bought the tickets a long long time ago when it was all very abstract... As the dates get closer, I wake up in the middle of the night stressing about it. [/quote] If this is the case you should go. If this really might help save your marriage then you are really weighing two weeks away from them against a potential divorce. Not sure where you are going but I have been to India for a week (which really means 4 days on the ground and the rest in the air). It can be done and you can rest while DH is in the office. Or even better can you and DH go away another time when it is not work related and you can just focus on your marriage. I am sure you will make the right choice for your family. [/quote]
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