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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's my question for LD folks (not OP whose condition is medical). Take a PP poster's example who says post-menopause or whatever 10 years after the honeymoon phase is over a DW reverts into LD when she was HD during the first few years of the relationship. The HD husband decides he can't live without sex for the rest of his life and ends the relationship. Does DW really plan on never dating again? If she does plan do date again is she going to fire up her match.com account and honestly describe herself as LD to prospective new partners? I doubt it.[/quote]

No, b/c she won't be LD to a new partner. If she dates again, and especially the same person, she's going to fuck like a rabbit the first year or so of the relationship and then it will wane. You know why? Because familiarity kills many women's sex drive. It just does. She's not attracted to you anymore. But I guarantee that if you gave her the freedom to do so, she would find someone that would turn her on. There is this false notion that women are by nature monogamous. Wrong. If societal norms changed and it was ok for women to love sex - really love sex - and for open relationships, I think many people would be shocked at how many women picked up that gauntlet.  [/quote]

Which is probably how a lot of the cultures repressing female sexuality got started in the first place. Women like to have sex - and they especially like to have sex with men who aren't their husbands. Husbands can't be sure that their heirs are, in fact, their own kids. So, they do what they can to lock down women having sex with other people. [/quote]

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