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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]The good person, happy person, productive person is what I care about most. Part of achieving that means I  highly values school.[/b] But why can't a kid have a passion for a hobby? In this case sports?

I can see if his grades went from Bs to Ds, you might have to figure out a different mix of school and sports, but if that's not happening, a person's joy matters, too. If your son loves something, and you can encourage this passion, it sounds like a wonderful thing. [/quote]

I agree with you about supporting hobbies kids are passionate about & certainly about a person's joy mattering.

I really don't understand the bolded phrase, however. I know plenty of good people who are happy & productive adults who hated school & got poor grades. I also know several immoral --oftentimes miserable -- jerks & a few non productive burnouts who were top students.[/quote]

Happy people can also be decent students.   But I value school because of the rapidly growing chasm between low income and comfortable.  It will take a LOT for our kids' generation to be OK financially.  And I'm not talking upper middle class or wealthy.  Just OK.  And to me that requires success in school so that the child can go on to get additional education or skilled training.[/quote]

Nobody said happy people can't be decent (or even excellent) students, just that not all happy people are (or were) good student. Not all financially secure people were good students, either, ( & vise versa) & I'm guessing this will continue to be the case, even in the new economy.  [/quote]

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