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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. DH actually brought this up this evening to me as it upset him. As this is an anonymous forum i do appreciate some of the suggestions- but others not as much-dcurban what did I expect .

As I was trying to be short in first post and subsequent as to not over share and to the point I obviously left out 10 years of history and other factors--this is a continued theme with his parents.

Disney and the fact that it is in my prents backyard most likely swayed this-and I agree with the pps who said to not mention it to them and I plan not to as well as the ones who said letting it go and not caring is the way to go- which I am working on.

But others obviously are either  quick to judge or blessed with a family dynamic that is never frustrating or causes you to maybe not be the best version of yourself. Even as annoying as I found some of the responses Im glad I got to sort thru this here anonymously so when DH brought up his frustrations to me I actually used some of the comments from here to help.

In talking with DH tonight I got to hear him out which in turn helped me understand where my initial reaction came from.

Thanks for those who commiserated and offered some nice suggestions-I got a resolution I feel good about.[/quote]

I love people like the OP who post on this forum, and then sound pissed off that posters didn't agree with them or criticized them.  If you aren't able to handle both positive and negative feedback from an anonymous message board, then don't post here![/quote]

And I "love" people like you who think that a poster should have to swallow all advice received for her post, and have no emotion about it. Just because op doesn't agree with your response does not mean she shouldn't have posted.  Usually there is a lot more to a poster's story than what they can fit in their post. Not op, by the way. [/quote]

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