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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a neighbor like this - just show up in the backyard. I told them 'I think we need to take a break from this for awhile.' To which they asked, 'how long' and I said at least til the (Fall in my case).' This was 2 years ago. I've never asked them over since. This is a neighborly 'friendship' you can do without.

My backyard is my oasis and I wouldn't want anything that creates stress, like it's doing for you.[/quote]

The crazy bold person above--- really??  Why should she have to? God-the self-entitlement!  You don't go uninvited into people's backyards.  It's called trespassing and in many states you could be shot for doing it.[/quote]

Not the 'bolded climb the gate'. I was referring to the woman attacking OP for not saying more. Not everyone is a bitch and wants strife [/quote]not the pp to whom you are responding, But commonsense dictates if they're already violating boundaries then you need to be extremely direct and clear with them about what you do not want them to do. [b]And what year are we living in, standing up for yourself doesn't make you a bitch makes you a grown ass woman[/b].[/quote]

This.  People are so dependent on group support, that when they have to stand up and handle a negative situation all by themselves, they are too passive and prefer to rely on weak social cues instead.  No wonder her neighbors keep coming back.[/quote]

Really?? Why is the onus never on the uncouth assholes?

How about rude people have some class and manners?

People like OP described run through life crying how people are so mean.

To the other poster--teach your kid NOT to go in other people's yards. It's thar simple.  Pick them up and remove them when they do and forcefully tell them this is not our yard/house.  It's called teaching.  It's how kids learn appropriate behaviors.  Don't be a pansy and talk in a baby voice 'no sweetie'--half-assly all the while letting your kid call the shots. It's rude.[/quote]

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