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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Surprised no one has mentioned porn addiction, that also kills a libido. My ex had a million excuses for not being in the mood. I later found "signs" of him masturbating frequently and began to peel back the layers of the onion. [/quote]

DH's excessive masturbation killed my marriage. My lawyer said it was a common cause of divorce. :( [/quote]

Interesting debate - excessive masturbation to porn vs. low desire for wife.  My DW is low drive.  She is fine with sex a couple times a month.  So I masturbate to porn 10 times for every time I am intimate with her.  I wouldn't chose this ratio, would much rather have an enthusiastic sex partner.  But there has been the occasional awkward time where I had already finished myself off and had trouble getting in the mood when DW insinuated she would be open to having sex.

So while I am sure there are men who neglect their spouses in favor of porn, I wonder how many others are like me and use porn as a substitute to having a DW with a similar libido (and masturbating often instead of getting frustrated and complaining about the lack of sex in the marriage).[/quote]

Wife here. That's me.  Last time we had sex, H couldn't even remember how long it has been, whereas I track it obsessively because it's never enough for me.  He would be shocked to know that I have much more sex without him than with him.[/quote]

My husband would get angry or act irritated/annoyed with me when I would bring up how long it had been since we last had sex (measured in months in our marriage).  Of course I knew, because I was constantly frustrated by the lack of sex!

He also had the nerve to tell me that he didn't like that I owned a vibrator.[/quote]

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