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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Surprised no one has mentioned porn addiction, that also kills a libido. My ex had a million excuses for not being in the mood. I later found "signs" of him masturbating frequently and began to peel back the layers of the onion. [/quote]

DH's excessive masturbation killed my marriage. My lawyer said it was a common cause of divorce. :( [/quote]

Interesting debate - excessive masturbation to porn vs. low desire for wife.  My DW is low drive.  She is fine with sex a couple times a month.  So I masturbate to porn 10 times for every time I am intimate with her.  I wouldn't chose this ratio, would much rather have an enthusiastic sex partner.  But there has been the occasional awkward time where I had already finished myself off and had trouble getting in the mood when DW insinuated she would be open to having sex.

So while I am sure there are men who neglect their spouses in favor of porn, I wonder how many others are like me and use porn as a substitute to having a DW with a similar libido (and masturbating often instead of getting frustrated and complaining about the lack of sex in the marriage).[/quote]

Somewhat related - I wonder how many marriages like this would have more sex without porn. For example, I suspect there are marriages where the lower drive wife would like the husband to put more effort into her and would have more sex if he did (but still not as much sex as he would like.) In other words, her preference would be for him to be frustrated and paying more attention to her. [/quote]

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