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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I don't think there is anything you should do now.  Your friend is still in shock and not in his right mind, it's really unfair to him and his children to make any kind of financial decisions right now.  I know you aren't pressuring him to do so, it's on his side, but if you truky care about this man you will save him from himself.[/quote]

+1.  A year is not enough for him or for these children.  You are seriously considering moving into their house, sleeping in their mother's bed, using her kitchen, and basically just jumping into her shoes, so soon?  That's not going to go well.  And if you have a difficult relationship history with this guy, there is no guarantee that this marriage will work out-- especially with the children's fragile emotional state.  Do everyone, including yourself, a favor and just keep dating.[/quote]

I agree.  Why can't you just wait a few years, until the grieving isn't so raw and the kids are older?[/quote]

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